Little Update

So in my last post I had mentioned how I'm having a baby and was going to have a sonogram done. Well, for one we did get the sonogram and found out we are having A BOY. Just as we suspected. And currently I'm almost 30 weeks pregnant. I've started a pregnancy blog so you can head over there to check out details and follow me throughout the pregnancy, birth, and life thereafter. --> Pregnancy Blog

Not too sure what I'll be posting on this blog now, as my life story has basically shifted over to my other blog. But most likely will just post random stuff like I used to do. (: so anyway, go and follow my new blog!! I'll be posting there a lot more often. ;) and saving this blog for other stuff I decide to share.

Have a great day!

Further News

So, continuing from my last post, Anthony and I FINALLY moved. We kept putting it off mainly because we wanted to fix the car and had to wait for car parts, and then he had a small accident and we had to replace a headlight...but after all, we are finally here!
It's not exactly what we expected. Very cloudy and been rainy most the time since we got here. We did have one sunny day though. But for the fact that Christmas is in two days..IT SHOULD BE SNOWING.  It does not feel like Christmas this year. And it stinks!
While on the topic of Christmas, what would you like for Christmas? I want a recording microphone. I told my mom and I'm pretty positive she's getting me one. So I can't wait!  Better quality music recordings here we come. Next I'll just need a good camera.

Also, I know I'm gonna be jumping around a bit on this post, but there's a corner store from our new house that is literally two houses down. It's called Westside Flava's and they have THE best food! Everything we've tried is beyond good. People there are very nice and talkative too, and of course the cook there made a 'Soul Roll' for us to sample. It's like an egg roll but stuffed with, collared greens, lettuce, turkey and some other stuff. But man, that tastes BETTER than egg rolls. They have extremely good chicken and sandwiches too. Proud to have it as our corner store. Lol. Although it's a little more expensive....the food is just so good you HAVE to go back. Next time we go, which will probably be today, I'm getting two soul rolls and going to try one of their salads. But we better go today because we are going back to Anthony's parent's tomorrow and staying through New Year.

That brings me to some other news... Anthony and I are having a baby. We've told basically everyone we wanted to know first before we made anything public. So that's why it's been so long. I'm 19 weeks and  4 days along now. But while we're in NY I'm going to finally get my first sonogram and hopefully can find out the gender! I've already had one appointment with a midwife and they took some blood and I got to hear the baby's heartbeat. But I'm pretty excited for when we get the sonogram. I guess that's sorta like one of my Christmas gifts.

Anyway, that's whats been going on and I hope you all have a very Merry Christmas! And Happy New Year!

This would be our new house.

And our favorite corner store.

Thanksgiving Time!

So Thanksgiving is this week! What are you thankful for? What are you doing this year?

For this year Anthony and I are moving to Pennsylvannia (more details about this in a future post). He got a construction job that pays really well, and we were supposed to be gone today, but we decided we should probably stay until after Thanksgiving. So the plan is to leave on Saturday.  So we'll see what happens!

On another note, we got a car! It's a Park Avenue by Buick and a 2002 model. Its in such good condition and we got it for a great price.  I honestly feel so lucky and thankful to have so many things working out right now.

Also, I was actually looking forward to making my own turkey this year, but since we're probably staying here for Thanksgiving, I'll probably just make it afterwards. Because I really wanna make turkey!

Anyway, I'm excited and happy and hope everything turns out ok. Sorry I couldn't give more details, but it'll have to go into a future post. ;)

THANK YOU ♥ HAPPY THANKSGIVING ♥

Our new car.

New York Times... so far

So I have been in New York for about the past five months or so,  and gotta say...lots has happened! Anyway, Long island beaches are wonderful. The ocean is enjoyable and relaxing and the waves are fun to play in so long as you don't get pulled out in undercurrents.  ;) I was actually saved by a lifeguard once.

I've battled pneumonia and was in the hospital for five days. And gotta say that was probably the worst thing that has happened to me. I NEVER want to experience that again.

During the Summer it probably only rained a total of three times. And the rain picked up once September rolled around.  And beginning of October when the hurricane Joquin was possibly going to hit I left for Ohio for ten days(went to my brothers Confirmation). But thankfully the hurricane never did hit here. Since then there hasn't really been any rain.

I've been working at a catering hall called Larkfield Manor. It's not too bad. I work basically on weekends and get paid pretty well for three days worth.  But its even better when you can make $50 tips in one night. Not the easiest thing to make tips at a catering hall though. But I have definitely learned a lot.

I've done so many more things but for me to put them all in detail here would be WAY too much, so I will list them.

Other things I've done while in New York:

-Jones Beach
-Airforce Plane Show
-Robert Moses Beach
-Christina Perri Concert
-Bronx Zoo
-Sight and Sound (Pennsylvania)
-Hershey Farm (Pennsylvannia)
-Lazer Dome
-CitiField for baseball (Mets vs Reds)
-Rode a train
-Saw some movies (Fantastic Four, Minions, Pan, War Room, and so many others...)
-Went to Olive Garden on my birthday
-Went to Tellers resturant for one year anniversary.

...And that's about all I can think of right now. :)

I am hoping to stay a litte more updated on my posts...like AT LEAST once a month. I never planned to get behind this much, but you know, things change and people grow busy at times. But I will try my best to make time.  :) ♥

Belated Easter

So it's been a few days my fellow readers. Not too much has happened, but I missed my post for Easter! So here it is...a little late, but better than never.

On Easter day I unfortunately had to work. I went to church that morning, came home and basically just went to work. Although it was much slower than a normal Sunday which was pretty good.

The bad part about it was that we were not paid time and a half because Easter is not considered a "government holiday." But the fourth of July is. I can't tell you how many people were upset with that picture. Even majority of my customers thought it was unfair. Except for one. That's all. I only had one who really didn't seem to care.

That was pretty shocking actually. But it is what it is....

Sorry this is a late late late post! Its been hectic! And I've been working more hours.

So until next time! 

:) 

"Death Do Us Part"

This is actually a post I've made on a facebook page of mine under my pen name. Wrote it a while back, but I think it's a good read and I wanna give more people a chance to read it who may not have seen it. You can find the page here: https://www.facebook.com/helpmarriages?fref=nf

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How is divorce ever acceptable in marriage? (It's not.)

Marriage is a vow, a promise to love and be with eachother until death. If you chose to marry, that's what you are telling your bride/bridegroom. There's nothing in there mentioning that you can divorce when you've "stopped loving eachother." And if you are basing your love off of a feeling all by itself, then you need to wake up! Feelings always change. Of course Love is a feeling, but it doesn't mean you will always "be in love." The feeling can come and go like normal feelings.
Especially when you first fall in love you'll have that nice fuzzy new feeling that we all enjoy. These new feelings are usually present in all new relationships and can last for 6 months up to 3 years. And alot of people like to leave once that feeling fades. But if you leave when the feeling fades, then you never really truly loved that person, because a true love is not based alone on the feeling, it's the choice to be with that person no matter what you may be feeling at that time. So true love includes both a feeling and the choice.
These are good things to think about before choosing to marry someone too. Will you still be there when they're sick, injured, poor, sad? Or will you still be there when you get angry at them, or they sadden you somehow? In other words, will you survive the hard times with them? If not, then rethink your relationship. Find someone you could survive being with for your whole life through everything.
And for those who are already married, but feel like they are not with the right person, go back in time: what were the things that made you fall in love with them? Make a list. After that, divide it into two categories. 1.) Can't be taken away 2.) CAN be taken away.
The more you have in the first category, the better. And Im not saying that having things in the second category is necessarily bad either. Just the more in the first, the better. And if you don't have very many in the first category take some time to think. Is there anything at all you could put there? I know this might be just as hard for happily married couples to come up with because for example, you can't write down their looks(those fade with time.) But just see what you come up with.
If you really feel no reason to be in the marriage though, just remember you made a promise. And think about why you got married in the first place. And you better fight to keep it together because THAT marriage is IRREPLACABLE. You can fall in love with so many people, but there's only one person you can choose to be with all your life. Once you divorce, you break that and you can never get it back. The same for abortion. For example, that baby is irreplacable as much as people say it's just a "ball of cells," if you were to let that child grow up, then you would never find another like it. So, why do we throw away some of the most special gifts in the world?
FIGHT against what is pulling you apart, because whatever it is, it's trying to take that gift away from you, and if you divorce, you are only letting evil win.

Thank you for reading again. smile emoticon Feel free to contact me if you need to. Leave opinions in the comments, etc. I'm no expert on this subject, but I am doing what I can and I hope it saves many marriages, even just one.
~Cassie DiAmica xoxox

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A little bit of Heaven aye!

So, today I had a thought cross my mind. I was thinking about the people who are in situations where they lose everything. Like in a house fire, or even a severe flood, tornado, all those natural disasters. I was thinking of how they don't have a choice because it just happens without any warning in some cases. Then, I asked myself what if you lost everything you had?  I was trying to imagine how I might feel or if I would even be able to live without anything. Like, WHAT IF EVERYTHING YOU EVER HAD JUST DISAPPEARED? If all that you owned was taken away would you be able to survive? 

After I had thought about that I connected it to another fact I know which is that in Heaven you will not have these possessions. Of course, I don't know for sure because I've never been there. BUT I can imagine what Heaven would be like. 

My idea of Heaven is based off of what I know in the faith and from other things I may have read about or seen. 

The picture in my imagination: 

In Heaven, you feel more peaceful than peace is described on Earth. You don't possess the material items but you possess love and peace from everyone there. People communicate through their minds without needing to open their mouths. It would be like God giving you a message here on Earth, like hearing a random voice in your head telling you to do something.  Like your conscious. It would be filled with lots of light, and many smiles and laughter would be shared. No thought of doubt, worry, or fear would ever come to mind. It's pure happiness...

What I'm curious about is if Heaven would be shaped to what you like...because people say Heaven is paradise, but everyone has a different perspective on what paradise is to them. So is there only ONE paradise out there that supposably can make everyone happy?! What are the things that everyone has in common that makes them happy? Those are the things that would probably be in Heaven. At least I think. 

What do you all think????

The Loss of Your Life Partner

So, today when I went to work I had a customer. She wasn't like the other customers I had...and what I mean is...it went like this: 

She told me she would need four bags of water softener salt and then mentioned how she needed help with it because her husband isn't around anymore to help her. OMG. She said that he has passed away (I'm assuming not too long ago) and she seemed like she was about to cry and she was so so so sad. I simply told her "I'm so sorry." For I didn't know what to do, but naturally I tried to comfort her best I could and I wanted to give her a hug (which I seriously almost offered), but after I finished the transaction, I told her that at least the sun's out and the weather is nice and I told her to try and enjoy her day more. And simply smiled cause smiles can help make anyone's day. I really really hope she's okay...

I really do care a lot about people I guess...some people aren't like that, and that's fine too. But if you don't show the compassion and love for another person...they will simply think you do not care. And I know some people really don't care! But I do! It's sad, and the lady needed something to brighten her day! Especially after she lost the love of her life! For goodness sakes...anyway, I've written something that I am dedicating to her and to anyone who has dealt with a passing of a close companion who they dearly loved. I know it must be very hard to deal with. But just keep moving forward and know that one day you will see them again. 

Letter From Heaven

Hello my dear,
Please do not be saddened.
For I am safe,
And always looking out for you.

I see you everyday,
Continuing our routine,
But I notice the emptiness you feel.
Please don't cry...

I know you miss me,
But we will soon meet again,
I love you my dear,
But please do move on.

You can't live life sulking.
Don't give up if I'm not there,
Although I am still with you all the time.
Just not physically.

Dear, you must live on.
Enjoy life for me.
Have an adventure,
Experience new things. 

(whisper) Then tell me all about it when you get to Heaven.

Do not fear,
For I won't be waiting long.
Because in heaven,
Time does not exist. 

Until then,
Smile because the sun's out,
Laugh because it's healthy,
And live as long a life as you can. 

See you soon.

- Your Beloved 


Hope this helps you. (: And remember that life can always be enjoyable. If you can't be with the one whom you love in the current moment, then live life for them. Thank you. 

Feeling down?

Okay, so for those of you who are familiar with my youtube channel. you may have noticed that I've removed a bunch of my videos. And that is because I am first going to get copyrights for my songs...somehow...I think I know how to do that, but I'll have to research more to make sure. 

ANYWAY, just be patient. I haven't actually written many songs this year, although I've written some poems. So while we wait for my songs to be rollin back into business I'll share some poems. :) Sound good? Ok.

*flips through notebook full of written poems*

*notices that the recent poems are too depressing* 

Ummm....you guys don't wanna read depressing poems do you? 
Perhaps you do? Maybe you'll relate to them? Cause I hope not...I mean...



Have Had Enough

That moment when the world turns on you.
You sit there imagining the sharp blade slicing through your warm heart.
It's already broken enough.
The pain is nothing.
You lie there bleeding,
And wondering why you're still breathing.
"I should be dead by now."
After awhile you start gasping for air.
It's getting harder to breathe.
"What's my reason for dying?"
You wonder if it is really worth it.
"Of course it is," you say.
Because the pain the world lays on you,
Is the same.
And only death would make it go away.




Now please do not think that I am telling you death is the answer. Life is the real answer.

People just need to express feelings that are trapped inside of them so that it doesn't build up. Which could lead to some bad things. Which we don't want to talk about. Although death is not necessarily a bad thing. It's actually a good thing. But it all depends, because before we enter our deathbed we need to have lived a fullfilling life. Life is not always easy, and it never will be. If you think death is the answer then think again, and find a way to channel the emotion in healthy ways. Things that I do are write songs, write poems, write for sake of writing, write write, write, have I mentioned "write"? and I also sing and play guitar. Plus doing this can create beautiful pieces of work. There's many other ways, but these are only a few. How do you cope with certain emotions? 

One more thing: I love you. Can't find love anywhere else? I LOVE YOU. And I will pray for you. 

Thank you! Never give up! No matter how hard! I wanna give all of you gushy hugs and love on you. *Mwah mwah mwah*

Feeling loved?? ;)


"Dis writer weird."

"I know. But she lub meh."

"What's lub?"

"Everyone knows what lub is. Don't you know?"

"Didn't I just ask you what it was?"

"I think so..."

"So what's lub?"

"Lub is a form of love...the cute version" (;

"Oh. Very insightful..."

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ENJOY LIFE EVERYBODY!

Thank you for reading! :)

Put a smile on your face, walk out the door and face the world!

Change of Plan

So, I know it's been awhile again. *sigh* I take so long to write these. You guys must be dying just to hear from me...

Oh, well ain't that great?

Let's hope you're still with me!

 So school started and I mentioned that a little bit in my last post. But as of now I'm not sure if college is or was something I really wanted to do. I ended up having to withdraw quite a few classes for various reasons(yes, it's embarrassing), but honestly it's not for everyone. Sure, I enjoyed a few of my classes very much, My favorites were English and Psych( I'm still taking my Psych classes). Shhhhh. I don't know why you have to be quiet.........*cricket* ....*awkward silence* .......

Okayyyyy, so WHAT'S MY NEW PLAN YOU WONDER? Well, I'm leaning towards becoming a flight attendant! Yepp. If you have any tips or experience, I would love to know more about it. I've done a little research here and there, so yeah. But other than that, I'm just working my current job at Kroger and saving my money. But by the end of May I should be on my way to New York where I'll have a little time to adventure and experience more new things. It'll be good for me. And I won't be gone forever. I promise. 

Hope life is rollin' the way you want! 

Peace out (:

Gettin' Back in the Groove

Hello all my lovely people! It has been FOREVER since I've made any posts. The past few months have been full of change! Firstly, I got a job. I'm now in school...and...well...let's talk more about all that first.

August 21st I was hired as a cashier at my local Kroger. Being my very first job and everything, I went all out on my interview. Beforehand, I went to the library and borrowed loads of books on how I should be in an interview. I knew NOTHING about interviews, given with my previous work experience (which was none.) Learned how to dress, how I should act to appear confident and to hide any nerves.

Well, I had applied to Kroger sometime in July after I had my driver's license (finally). BUT I wasn't hired right off the bat. As much as I wanted to try to get a super good high pay job, I was actually devastated thinking what am I gonna do if I can't even get hired at this place?

I ended up applying to various other places hoping I could get hired. In the end they all failed and I never got called back. I dressed well, had a good firm handshake. What was I missing? Well, for one I know those companies missed out on a very great addition! But with my good luck, Kroger called me a month later when all the school kids went back to school and I was hired. I was so happy! With all the time I had spent and failed at getting any jobs, the first place I applied ended up hiring me. Which I am very thankful for.

I decided not to start school in the Fall because I was making and saving money before I started. Working and having a job has definitely been a great experience. Plus, I've learned how to fill gas up in the car much better now (; lol. 

So, before starting college, I had to get all these important papers to the college so that I could register and get started. That took forever. I ended up doing my placement tests in December, although I did not need to do my English placement test because my English score on my SAT was high enough (yay).  

After that, I attended orientation four days before the school year started. They told us we couldn't register for classes til we went to orientation(which was probably a lie). BUT I managed to do it. After that I realized I had 18 credits and it was too much, so I dropped two classes, but then I needed at least one more credit so I stopped in to see my advisor, That was a nice trip, and with our luck I got into the first class we tried! Thank goodness for open seats. 

Then, of course, you have all these textbooks that you've gotta buy which are EXPENSIVE. Taking all my money. :( College. *sigh* Hopefully I'll be able to get some scholarships next semester. 

So anyway, all my classes are pretty good. And that's where I'm at for now. Working, studying, eating, sleeping and all that good stuff. 


Is there anything you guys want me to talk about in future posts? I don't have many topics in mind at the moment so some ideas would be great. :) Get my brain rollin' guys! And I should also have time to write my posts when I have nothing left to do (like right now.). 

Enjoy your day. :)  

Favor for Me?

As some of you may know, I plan to start college in the Fall this year, but I have financial struggles. And I'm sure almost all of us know that feeling. I'd appreciate it of anyone who saw this would sponsor me to help me win some scholarship money. Must be 18+. https://www.gotchosen.com/en/scholarship/sponsor/Chinchizza

And I'm sorry I haven't been posting much. I haven't been able to get around to it with my busy schedule. But as I sort things out more, my time will be more free.

THANK YOU TO ANYONE WHO HELPS! :) and share the link with anyone you know! Gracias!

Is Love Understandable?

Sorry I haven't been posting the way I've said I would in the past. I've just graduated high school and been busy with so many things. Anyway, I've found some time here, and my topics aren't going to be really intense as I am still very busy with my schedule right now, but I wrote this the other night where it starts off as like a poem/story but then it gets deeper and deeper as you read. So, enjoy. Hopefully it has SOME meaning to it. :) 

I see the way you look at me,
When you think I can't see you.
When our eyes touch,
Everything surrounding freezes.
And my heart lies still,
For it knows much deeper than my conscience.
But deep down, my inner-self fears.
Fears the loss, pain and the sorrow.
I can't be broken anymore than I have,
Cause it hurts...
Like a needle being forced into the skin much deeper than it can go.
Like, what if you don't love me?
It's such an emotion to take on.
But SO many people lack the understanding.
Why?...
Personally, I understand through God,
But not all people understand Him,
The Almighty who loves and IS love within Himself.
When will people better understand love?
It is to my own reasoning that love will not be fully understood,
Until we understand God alone.
For He loves us and teaches us how to love.
And until then, Love can not be made clear to us.

Best quote ever: "Everyone says love hurts, but that isn't true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again. Love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt." ~Unknown

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"I only Wish" Written by me

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God Loves Us

Remember to always have faith in your love. For God is Love. To always maintain your love, God can be one of the greatest helps. If you don't know God or don't pray, maybe you can try. It never hurts to try. Never hurts to believe. 

God is always waiting and always there for when you take him up into your arms whole heartedly. He will be at your side whether you know it or not. If you think God ruins your life or makes you feel lonely, know that God would never do that. Sometimes God lets bad things happen to us so that we can learn from them and come out stronger. He never actually makes those bad things happen to us in the first place though. But know that he is greater than all and He is the Savior of this world. He loves you more than you could ever know, and all He really wants is for you to return His love. 

Through Him is where all things are possible. All you've got to do is truly believe and pour your heart out for Him. Love is about sacrifice. Jesus sacrificed His life for us so He could save us from our sins. He did it through Love. He is our example.

And with all love comes sacrifice, commitment, and intimacy. Sacrifice as in giving up something for the other, commitment as in always being there for the other, and intimacy as in prayer or one on one time having a deep connection with the other.

God is Love and whether you have a relationship or not, God will always be there. You're never alone. God loves you.

Have a great day. (: <3

"The Angel" Written by Myself

   I was walking down the rocky, stiff road of the country just staring at the ground when all of a sudden I look up to see two parallel lights coming straight for me. My hands shifted to my face, but the light was too blinding. I realized it was a car and it was probably about to be the end of my life. The light went black…and that’s all I remembered.

   I lightly opened my eyes and saw that it was very bright. I rubbed my eyes to clear my vision, and noticed that I was looking straight into the eyes of a girl who was the prettiest I ever saw. My facial expression blankened and I could not stop starring at this girl. She wore all white and she had the greatest smile with the most perfect teeth. So white! It was mesmerizing! Her hair was a golden blond and she had the deepest ocean blue eyes! After I had processed this through my brain…which never really did completely finish processing since she was so beautiful, she said to me, “Everything will be okay.” and she let out a slight smile then got up and walked away. She appeared to be so caring; I just couldn’t believe what I was seeing with my eyes.

   I sit up and take a look around after the girl leaves. She was walking up a set of stairs with a golden railing and I just realized, C-c-could I be in heaven!? I saw angelic-looking girls EVERYWHERE! Everyone was wearing white and I even saw a few boys. Some of them were playing the harp and some were reading as they walked. They were all over the place. It was full of them. Some of them wore gold chains and necklaces and there were all kinds of mini trinkets and gadgets. It was so beautiful, it was a place I could stay in forever and never want to leave. In fact, I didn’t want to leave!

   I saw the girl with golden hair and blue eyes again. She was coming toward me. She led a hand gesture telling me to follow her. So I got up and walked toward her. I felt something I could not describe. I’d never felt it before. I felt very happy and I felt like everything was perfect and that everything would be okay. It was just a weird feeling but good at the same time. When I reached the girl she led me up the stairs and then as we got higher it kept getting brighter and brighter. It felt like forever just to get to the top of the stairs, and once we were at the top all I could see was the girl since the light caused everything around me to look all plain white. The girl said directly to me, “My name is Angela. You’ll be okay. It’s just not your time yet.” These words confused me a bit, and as I was trying to think this through, she softly kissed my cheek and then the next thing I know…I’m in my bed! How did this happen?! I thought I was in heaven, but then I now understood why she said, “It’s not your time yet.” and I looked up and smiled.

Merry Christmas! Remember the good things!

Alright! So I haven't made many posts recently due to my super busy schedule, but I would like to be making posts more often; so bear with me.

   So you know those times where you feel so down that nothing will EVER get better? Well, let me tell you. They always get better. A few months ago something tragic happened to me and I thought nothing would ever get better. I pretty much felt like I shouldn't even exist, and I felt like every time things got better they just all of a sudden got worse again. It's the worst feeling.

   Anyway, since this is the Christmas season I'd just like to say that this is a time of year for joy, cheer, and happiness. Why? Well, many people don't understand the real reason, but it's because Christ was born! It's the time to celebrate. It's why people are so happy! There may be more reasons to be happy, but words I remember hearing from the priest the other day, "sadness turns to happiness"... As he was talking the same thoughts came to my mind as he said those exact words there. I used to be sad, but now I'm happy! I mean, it happened. 

   At the end of November I finally told myself I would be happy, and that this year would be the BEST Christmas I'd ever have even though I felt more down than I ever had felt. I was tired of feeling down. When you are determined to have good things happen; they will. That's when my life got better. I stopped worrying about other things and I got my life together again. 

My sadness has turned to happiness this Christmas. It's like a miracle.

   Just keep in mind that no matter how hard life is you can never give up because giving up shows weakness. When you fight through the tough times you end up stronger in the end and it all turns out for the better. Trust me.

   Hope you enjoyed this small incerpt coming from me from my life. Although it's not so detailed, I just wanted to share. And I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas season and a Happy New Year!! Don't let the bad things get to you. Keep the good things in mind. ;)

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What is Love?

If you want to know what love is, then I will tell you. Love has many different outlooks and there isn't just ONE way to love or be loved. There is many. Love can be as simple as showing some care for another person whomever it may be. It can be supporting someone who needs it or being there for someone in bad times. These are only a few examples of ways that people can show some of their affection for people which isn't exactly Love, but it comes a long WITH love.  WHEN you love someone, all that matters to you is that person. You want to make sure they are okay and make sure all their needs are being met. You wanna make sure they stay happy. Love does NOT always involve that giddy feeling that you may feel inside though. This is what throws most people off. They think they don't love someone because that feeling has disappeared. The thing at this point is that you have to decide IF you are going to keep loving the person to best of your ability or find someone new. When you find someone new you will have that giddy feeling all near the beginning but it will fade...and all relationships will be like that. The trick is to MAINTAIN the love. That feeling doesn't say if you love the person or not. Love is a feeling BUT it is also a choice. You have to chose to keep loving someone in order to ever find a lifetime type of love. Love is a difficult thing to deal with but something also very important is God. God IS Love. With God I'm sure Love could be maintained quite well. God can make ANYTHING possible. If you keep God in your relationship then there will surly be Love because God IS Love. Right? Well...keep in mind..
Love is patient.
Love is kind.
Love does not envy.
Love does not boast.
Love is not proud.
Love is not rude.
Love is not self seeking.
Love is not easily angered.
Love keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil.
Love rejoices with the truth.
Love always protects.
Love always trusts.
Love always hopes.
Love always perseveres.
Love NEVER FAILS.

So....that's my talk about love.  and I guess its sorta about relationships too...but LOVE is very delicate and should be treated properly and never be messed round with. God gave us humans Love and He created us out of love. Its probably the greatest thing in the world, but then again God IS Love and He IS the greatest thing in the world.